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Good Ways To Foster Communication With Your Teen
from: Adwina JacksonThe teenage years are confusing for parents and teens alike.
Kids that once seemed open and full of sharing suddenly withdraw.
As a parent, your primary concern may be fostering communication
with your teen. Most parents struggle to get something other
than a one word response from their teenager.
It's important to understand that you have to be delicate when
approaching your teenager. You want to engage your child in
conversation without putting them on the defense or causing them
to withdraw.
While this can be challenging, the rewards of doing this are
great. There are a few key strategies you can adopt to ensure
that you foster strong communication and good ties with your
teenagers.
Ask Indirect Questions to Facilitate a Conversation. If you ask
your teenager a direct question you'll probably end up with a
one or two word response. Your goal should be encouraging them
to talk about things from a broader perspective. To engage your
child in a conversation about a particularly issue, consider
asking them about something related but not directly tied to the
subject you are getting at. You'll help them ease into a
discussion of what is on their mind.
Talk With Your Teen About Their Interests. Take an active
interest in your teens interests. If they are doing something
you don't know anything about, consider learning more about it
so you can ask them interesting and exciting questions about
their hobby or activity.
Listen to Your Teen and Avoid Lecturing. Most teens will shy
away from conversation if their expectation from that lecture is
simply a lecture. You want your teens to know that you are
interested in what they have to say. Withhold judgment at first
and allow them to speak their mind.
Pay Attention to Non-Verbal Language. Your teen can send you
many messages about what is on their mind through their
non-verbal communication. You can also engage them in
communication by putting your arm around them or patting them on
the back, encouraging them to open up to you.
Remember your goal should be sending the message to your teen
that you are providing a safe and nurturing environment where
they can share their deepest concerns, fears and interests
without fear of immediate reprimand or judgment.
Always take the time to accept your teen's feelings even if you
don't agree with them. You have to listen to your teen if you
want them to open up. Avoid jumping in and offering suggestions
immediately. Instead encourage your teen to look for answers in
a positive way.
You can also encourage your teen to share more by sharing with
them daily tidbits and insights into your life. Consider
occasionally asking their advice or opinion on things.
You'd be surprised how much easier it is to get teens to open up
once you adopt a few time tested strategies. Provide your
children with a nurturing and loving environment, and they will
more easily welcome you into their life.
About the author:
Adwina Jackson is a wife and mother of a young boy. She's also
the editor of Inspiring Parenting, an online source of valuable
parenting information. Please visit
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